Fustrated

So I have had ongoing sinus problems and went to my ENT three weeks ago to see what was wrong. He gave me some nasal spray and antibiotics, and took a sample. Sample grew bacteria so they had me come back in. He did a CT scan and apparently the cartilage in my nose has shifted all the way to the left, the pollups came back(Which he had removed some 8 years ago and aren't supposed to grow back). So I have to go in and have surgery to straighten the cartilage, remove two bones in my nose that are inflamed along with the pollups. I scheduled the surgery over my Thanksgiving break (Nov 27-December 5th) So that it would give me enough time to get the surgery done and I would be recovered by the time break ended. My mom calls me AFTER the appointment and tells me to reschedule it for January. Reason being the deductible would be met and they would have to pay for the surgery out of their own pockets. I politely explained to her that one, my CNA State certification test was in January and two, this was a nessecarry surgery that needed to be done and put off. As always, she didn't listen. I understand the surgery is going to cost a lot, but its so nice to know that they can blow a lot of money, much more than the surgery, on the house. So in a nutshell, the house is more important than me. I'm just done. I wanna be able to breathe properly and sleep properly.